His life is a real life commentary of Proverbs 1:10-19. This passage warns young men to keep away from bad company, especially people who plot violence against others. The first two verses rather summarize the whole:
"My son, if sinners entice you,
do not consent.
If they say, Come with us, let us lie in wait for blood;
let us ambush the innocent without reason; (Proverbs 1:10-11, ESV)."
He was a handsome young man. His good looks and talents had taken him to act on TV serials though he didn't have a career as an actor. He had a good job as a sales manager in a reputed firm.
Everything turned around when his friends decided to take revenge on another person. His friend was offended by this man and they all decided to support their friend who was insulted. Though they probably did not plan it that way their opponent died in the attack.
Then there was arrest, imprisonment, trial, appeals.... The legal juggernaut started rolling but it kept rolling for long years. Finally, it stopped as many of the gang including this young man was acquitted by a higher court. But by the time, it had crushed under its wheels their reputation, their jobs and lot of money.
He had already lost his job during the trials. No one was willing to employ a person once implicated in a crime though he was later exonerated by courts.
He ended up as a cab-driver to provide for his family.
After many years, he invested all his meagre savings for an employment visa in a foreign country and air tickets with the hope of rebooting his life. On the third day of his arrival in that country, he died of a massive heart attack at age 32! He was leaving behind a young wife and two small helpless kids.
The ruin began with a wrong decision, taken under peer pressure, the pressure of bad company. Wisdom is to avoid such company and such counsel. The Bible is not all about life after death, but it also helps us to live our lives here on earth in a meaningful way.
You may like to read rest of the Book of Proverbs and the rest of the Bible as well. It is full of wisdom for us today.
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Thursday, September 03, 2015
'Fool' redefined
Usually
we take a ‘fool’ to be an unknowdegeable person. A random search
for the meaning of ‘fool’ on Google landed me on this definition:
‘a person who acts unwisely or imprudently; a silly person.’ You might have come across quite a number of people
(some with earned doctoral degrees from reputed universities) who are
foolish in their behaviour. Foolishness is thus not a matter of how
much a person know but how a person behaves.
That
is closer to the definition that we find in the bible where a ‘fool’ is
a person who behaves ignoring God (Psa 14:1). Fools not only deny God
but also refuse to learn wisdom that comes from God. In addition to being unteachable they cannot be disciplined (Prov 15:5). So, by refusing
to learn but guided by their own ‘wisdom’ they end up in trouble
always (Prov 14:3). They cause trouble to others as well, as their
behaviour is not in line with the expectations of the society and the standards of God
(Psa 53:1).
Though
not exclusive, Ecclesiastes 5:1-7 offers a closer look at the concept of ‘fool.’
Guard your steps when you go to the house of God. To draw near to listen is better than to offer the sacrifice of fools, for they do not know that they are doing evil. Be not rash with your mouth, nor let your heart be hasty to utter a word before God, for God is in heaven and you are on earth. Therefore let your words be few. For a dream comes with much business, and a fool's voice with many words. When you vow a vow to God, do not delay paying it, for he has no pleasure in fools. Pay what you vow. It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay. Let not your mouth lead you into sin, and do not say before the messenger that it was a mistake. Why should God be angry at your voice and destroy the work of your hands? For when dreams increase and words grow many, there is vanity; but God is the one you must fear. (Eccl 5:1-7 ESV).
The fools are characterized by their rash speech. Note that here ‘listening’
is contrasted with the ‘sacrifice of the fools’ (Eccl 5:1-2). Fools can say any thing any time without considering what they are
going to say and its consequence. In this particular passage this is
connected with worship. The righteous person draws closer to God in
worship to hear what God has to say—they are all ears in the
presence of God but the fools are ‘all mouth!’ The fools walk in
to offer their sacrifices and doesn’t care if God has to tell them
anything. Because they are wise in their own eyes.
The
rashness also has another danger. The fools makes vows rashly and later discover that they cannot fulfill them. The reason is
simple: they did not consider the need and feasibility of their
comitment. This rashness is the ticket to destruction: ‘Why should
God be angry at your voice and destroy the work of your hands?’
(Eccl 5:6 ESV).
Another
characteristic of ‘fools’ is excessive speech. If ‘rashness’
has to do with the speed, excessive speech has to do with the
quantity; but both are of vey low quality indeed! The preacher notes
that ‘... a fool’s voice (comes) with many words.’ First of all
the fool doesn’t consider what he is going to say before he begins
his speech. He thinks along the way as the speech progress. So, he
has to use a lot of words. Fools try to persuade people not by the
power of their words but the amount of their words. Thus superflous
speech is not only comes from foolishness it makes a fool more
evidently foolish.
Apostle James has summarized this very well in James 1:19: "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger...."
Apostle James has summarized this very well in James 1:19: "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger...."
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